I was thinking about a consistent theme to write about. I glanced at my generous cup of cappuccino and thought: this object, filled with chocolate and coffee, might help me explain
how I feel.
Inclusion could be as delightful and homogeneous as this liquid, don’t you think?
But look at us, look at the thousands of people with disabilities like me. Many of these individuals, I repeat, like me, are not the internet influencers who gain privileges by showcasing their daily lives as someone “unusual” in the most common life we all share.
For me, it feels like someone dumped too much powdered milk into my water, mixing it with chocolate powder and milk of the same consistency. I get nothing. Everything I’ve achieved comes in the form of certificates and rounds of admiring applause. That stereotypical, overly common cheer of: “Don’t give up. When the time is right, whatever you’re meant to be, you will be, because you didn’t give up.”
People who say this, even when using my exact words or simply uttering a single term—strength—to summarize it all, have no idea. They don’t realize how nauseating their optimism feels for someone like me. These individuals, who believe so much in others’ willpower, often don’t understand that they hold the power to fulfill our simplest dreams. Imagine someone who can’t walk, for instance.
Yes, friends, I hope you understand. Those of you without any disability or neurodivergence may have never looked in the mirror and asked yourselves: “Would that person want to date me?” Then, considering, “But they’re in a wheelchair,” and deciding, “Who cares? I’ll ask them anyway. If it works out, maybe we’ll spend a night together, or even share a kiss.”
Even better, imagine the CEO of a major magazine deciding to hire a wheelchair-user as a reporter just so they can earn their first paycheck.
This is where dreams begin. Yet, affirmative actions are still necessary, even though the true affirmative action is a change in attitude, not distrust in human capability.
I miss being my hot chocolate—the sweet taste of simply existing.
Marina Magalhães Cardoso is a journalist and writer, determined to turn challenges into inspiring stories. At 27 years old and based in Brasília, Brazil, Marina uses writing as a
tool to express her ideas, find solace, and share meaningful messages.
As a wheelchair user, she believes her experiences offer a unique perspective, highlighting the importance of equality and the pursuit of dreams. Her journey invites reflection and empathy, demonstrating the power of words to connect and transform.
